Dating concierge · Human-first, AI-assisted

Dating for people who are serious about partnership.

Verami is a human-first dating concierge that helps you move past endless swiping into real, aligned partnership — starting with a 7-minute guided intake that asks better questions than any app.

No games. No forced small talk. Just clarity on what you actually want in partnership and how ready you are for it.

Start my 7-minute intake How Verami works

Free, private, ~7 minutes. We personally review every intake.

  • Get clear on your patterns, values, and non-negotiables.
  • Use AI as a quiet coach — never as your stand-in.
  • See exactly what working with Verami would look like for you.
Why Verami

Not another dating app. A partner in your love life.

Apps are great at giving you more options. They're not great at helping you choose the right ones — or at slowing you down long enough to ask what partnership actually looks like for you. Verami flips that script.

We believe anything that helps you date should support your inner work and introduce you to real, ready humans — using AI only to strengthen your agency, never to impersonate your partner or trap you in endless swipes.

Depth over profiles
We start by understanding your values, history, non-negotiables, and the life you actually want to build — not just your hobbies and photos.
Human + AI together
We pair thoughtful questions and human review with quiet AI tools that spot patterns and reflect them back to you. You're always in control; AI never pretends to be you or your matches.
Fewer, better dates
We help you get radically clear on who belongs in your dating life and who doesn't, so you can say no faster and invest more in the people who fit — whether you meet them on apps, through friends, or anywhere else.
How it works

From intake to intentional dating.

Your first step is a guided intake designed to surface what actually matters in your love life. From there, we review your answers and, if it's a fit, invite you into a more intentional way of dating — on or off apps.

Step 1
Step 1 — Tell us what partnership looks like for you
Start with a 7-minute guided intake. You'll answer thoughtful questions about your relationship history, what's worked, what hasn't, and what a grounded, fulfilling partnership looks like for you.
Step 2
Step 2 — We map your patterns, values, and readiness
We review your answers with both human eyes and AI tools, looking for alignment between your patterns, your values, and the kind of partner you're likely to thrive with — not just who looks good on paper.
Step 3
Step 3 — If it's a fit, we invite you to work with us
If Verami feels right for what you're seeking, we'll share what working together looks like: how we can support you with clearer strategy, reflection, and accountability as you date with more intention.
Start my 7-minute intake
Date Stakes

Dates that respect your time.

A tiny promise that we'll both be there. Show-up energy, built in.

Set a small, refundable hold.
Meet as planned and get it back automatically.
Zero awkwardness.
It all happens quietly in the background.
Not a fee — just a shared promise.
A lightweight trust layer so both people commit to showing up.
Who it's for

Verami is for people who want partnership, not just dates.

Verami is for you if…

  • You're genuinely ready for a committed, emotionally healthy relationship.
  • You'd rather have fewer, better dates than an endless scroll of faces.
  • You're willing to look at your own patterns, not just blame the apps.
  • You want support and structure — and you're comfortable with AI as long as it's transparent and human-first.

Verami probably isn’t for you if…

  • You're only interested in something casual or undefined.
  • You're not ready to invest time or attention into your love life.
  • You want instant results without any reflection or change.
  • You're looking for an AI to flirt for you or automate your dating life.
FAQ

Questions you might be asking.

A few quick answers before you dive into the intake. If you’re still unsure, the best way to find out if Verami is for you is to start and see how it feels.

Is Verami just another dating app?
No. Think of Verami as a dating concierge and strategy partner. We care less about swiping and more about the person you're becoming and the partnership you're building.
How does Verami use AI?
We use AI behind the scenes as a reflection and insight tool — to help spot patterns in your answers and suggest gentle prompts for you to consider. AI never pretends to be you or your matches, never messages people on your behalf, and is always optional.
Where is Verami available?
We're starting small and growing intentionally. You'll see our current availability and options inside the intake.
How long does the intake take?
About 7 minutes. You can pause and come back if you need to.
What happens after I complete the intake?
We review your responses and let you know if Verami is a good fit for what you're seeking. If it is, we'll share what working together looks like and how to move forward.
Will my answers be private?
Yes. Your responses are used only to understand you and support your experience with Verami — they're not shared publicly or used to generate fake profiles.
Do I have to delete my dating apps?
That's up to you. Many people use Verami alongside apps, but with more clarity and boundaries around how they date.
Is this a fee?
No — it's a temporary, refundable hold. If you both show or cancel with notice, it's released automatically.
What if plans change?
Use "Cancel With Grace." If it's within the grace window, both holds are released.
Start here

Ready to date like you actually mean it?

If you're done with half-effort dating and algorithm roulette — and you're ready to move toward real partnership with more clarity and support — start with the 7-minute intake. It's your first step toward a more intentional love life.

Start my 7-minute intake

Free, private, ~7 minutes. We personally review every response.